Tuesday, July 29, 2008

Bad journalism and my response

The road to hell is often paved with good intentions. And often, no matter the intention, people who “volunteer” in Africa do more harm than good. A big part of the harm comes from the misinformation they bring back (Middle school student is on a serious mission, Jul. 4).

After spending almost a year in Uganda I was thrilled when someone gave this article to me. That joy quickly turned to horror when I read what was written about the country I had come to see as my second home.

The very first thing to say is Uganda does not smell like body odour and garbage. In the country it smells like charcoal cooking stoves, and in the city it can smell like exhaust when you are walking down the street. Sometimes, when you are wedged in the back of a minivan (the public transport) between two people for a several hours it can be a little smelly – but I challenge anyone here to smell good after long, hot, dust-filled trips. I never found the smell of garbage unless I was standing next to a garbage truck. Despite garbage on the road and mud or dust (weather dependent) people keep themselves, their clothes, and shoes astonishingly clean.

Experiencing a country for a few days doesn’t create an understanding. One out of every two children in Uganda is not HIV positive. The HIV prevalence rate is less than 10 per cent – with most people saying it is 7.6 per cent. This is very low when compared to other sub-Saharan African countries – something Ugandans are quite proud of.

The country is beautiful and the people are known to be the most hospitable. Often families take in children whose parents have died (from HIV or otherwise) ensuring the children have a roof over their heads, and hopefully some food.

There is a lot of history and culture in Uganda. Some of it is fascinating and beautiful, but other traditions are very difficult for North Americans to understand. I don’t support some of them, but it’s up to the Ugandans to change their own society. Many of the younger generation – those who are growing up to run the country one day – find the idea of child marriage as despicable as Westerners. To simply say “if girls don’t get an education they get married off to old men that rape them,” is unfair and judgemental. It paints a horrible picture of a society that is undergoing change.

If you give a Ugandan the choice between dignity – not being stared at, their lives dissected, and judgements made – and money, they would pick dignity every time. Just as we would be angry if someone wrote horrible comments about where and how we live – so are Ugandans.

I sent this article to a friend of mine in Uganda and he asked a pretty good question. “If you think it’s so bad here, then why do you come?” He answers it too. “Most Muzungus come to make money and then they go back and say nasty things.” He is referring to the numerous groups that look at the worst parts of the society and display them as spectacle to continue to keep their organizations in business. His anger is just one voice of many.

So, you want to help? Stay home. Find someone in Uganda that you trust (an individual or a sister organization) and entrust them with the money and overseeing a project. Unless you have some specific skill set that others don’t, you are not helping and just taking the jobs away from those who need them. If you travel to paint a school, you can feel good about yourself and get to know how lucky you are. But, the cost of the plane ticket alone could have hired several locals and subsequently supported their families.

While the fundraising effort to support new schools is commendable and it’s great that students at schools around Victoria are becoming aware of global issues, this money doesn’t give North Americans licence to act superior. Spend (and donate) your money wisely, watch who you listen too, and stay here if you really want to help.

Thursday, July 24, 2008

Readjustment

Readjusting to the developed world is hard.

Currently, I am job hunting and soon it will be apartment hunting. These make up two of my least favourite tasks. But, it’s 100 times harder when I keep thinking about what I left behind.

I get upset when I go out. Not because I am thinking how lucky we are here compared to how unfortunate others are. I don’t feel the urge to lecture everyone I meet (although some people get it). I am sad because all of this is becoming normal again. Too quickly the Ugandan lifestyle is disappearing.
I rarely drive on the wrong side of the world.
I forget how lucky I am to have real cheese, I just think – well of course.
I am getting used to no one staring at me.

Meh, enough of that… this makes the second whining post in a row. I will start being upbeat. In fact I am starting to read another in my African Reading Challenge – We wish to inform you that tomorrow we will be killed with our families. Wait, that’s not upbeat. Alright, after that.

Thursday, July 17, 2008

Missing Uganda

Right now, I am missing Uganda a lot.
I want to get a boda boda, when I am running late and still have a few blocks from the bus stop to my meeting, but no bodas here.
I want to eat matoke and ground nut (strange, I know, but true).
I want to walk down a dirt road from the main road to my apartment with kids yelling ‘muzungu’ at me.
I want to sit in the sun with perfect strangers and discuss the day.
I want to go Café Pap, Ban Café, or 1000 Cups with my friends.
I want to go and dance – nightclubs in Canada seem to be overrun with 14-year-olds in mini skirts (for those who don’t know the drinking age in 19).
I want to sit in the Sheraton Gardens making fun of horribly dressed bridal parties getting wedding photos taken. Seriously ruffles, lace, ribbons, and beading don’t all go together.
I want to see things here that I find as interesting as things in Uganda so I can post more often. I miss posting all the time.

It’s getting bad. I can tell because I even missing load shedding – what? The power is still on? I miss sketchy broken-down taxis and even sketchier boda rides. I miss high-carb diets and random bouts of food poisoning – I haven’t been really sick in weeks. I miss having to fight with a mosquito net every night.

And in an effort to make myself feel better I read my favourite Ugandan Blogs: Scarlett Lion - Uganda, Jackfruity, Notebook: East Africa, Ugandan Insomniac, TIA (This is Africa), and Pernille’s Louder than Swahili. It doesn’t work. Now, I just miss it more, and am jealous of all the people who are still there.

I’m heading to Mexico to the International Aids Conference in two weeks. Maybe that will help.

Thursday, July 10, 2008

Life on Vancouver Island

I live on an island. It is a big island by most standards, you can see it clearly on most maps, it takes nearly 10 hours to drive from end to end, and about three to drive across its thickest part.

But, it is an island.

This means aside from swimming there are two ways off.

One is to fly. A better option in my opinion as it takes 24 minutes from take-off to landing, but this is a fairly expensive option.

Option two is the boat. It is advertised as a beautiful two-hour boat trip between the island and the rest of Canada. Usually I would agree but not today. Today it is two hours on an over air-conditioned roller coaster. Seriously, I think I am going to be sick. Pitch and roll is not really how you want to spend two hours.

Charming, I still have to go back.

Tuesday, July 8, 2008

Happy Canada Day?

So for the first time in a couple of years I spent Canada Day in Canada. A novel concept I know...
But here's the worst part. After seeing the gong show Canada Day has become especially in downtown Victoria, I just miss Uganda more.
The excessive drinking, swearing, violence, and general icky behaviour from people of all ages, all while they sing Oh Canada, has really left a bad taste in my mouth.

So Happy Canada Day, but I miss Uganda.